Bahar Fallahi (11) and Vista Vajedsamiei (11) | STAFF REPORTER
During the week of November 21st, the St. Robert community observed the annual Bullying Awareness and Prevention Week.
In Ontario, the week beginning on the third Sunday of November has been designated as Bullying Awareness and Prevention Week. During this week, students, staff and families are encouraged to learn about bullying, its effects on learning and well-being, and how to prevent and stop bullying. In doing so, Bullying Awareness and Prevention Week helps to promote safer schools and a positive learning environment for everyone.
What is Bullying?
Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines bullying as “abuse and mistreatment of someone vulnerable by someone stronger, more powerful, etc.” It comes in a myriad of forms, such as verbal bullying, social bullying, physical bullying, and cyberbullying.
What are the impacts of bullying?
Bullying can affect everyone, from the one being bullied to the bully and even the bystanders. Victims usually suffer from physical injuries but they also experience psychological injuries. However, all the people involved can usually end up developing negative mental health issues, violent behaviour and even anxiety and depression. As a result, bullying does not only hurt the victim but the entire school community.
What can I do if I am being bullied?
Although it might be difficult and uncomfortable to talk about being bullied, it is important for your own safety and well-being to do so. You can discuss the issue with an adult whom you can trust, such as a teacher, an administrator, another staff member, a parent or a guardian. You can also ask your friends for help. These people can help you so that you do not have to go through the problem alone. They can help you end the bullying, or provide a safe and comforting space for you. You can also use YCDSB’s Report It tool here: https://www.ycdsb.ca/report-it/
What can I do if someone else is being bullied?
First of all, do not be a bystander. If you feel safe to do so, stand up for the person being bullied. Do so in a way that is calm and firm. If you do not feel safe confronting the bullies, approach the victim after the situation has calmed down to let them know that you are there for them. Ask them if they would like you to go with them to report the bullying to a trusted adult. Even if they say no because they are afraid the bullies will escalate, report the bullying anyway to help keep the person and others safe from bullying. You can report the bullying in person or using YCDSB’s Report It tool here: https://www.ycdsb.ca/report-it/
Sources
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/bullying
https://www.ontario.ca/page/bullying-we-can-all-help-stop-it#section-11
